If you have ever experienced a random act of kindness, you know what joy a simple act can produce. This month, encourage your family to spread kindness to the people you encounter during the holiday season and beyond.

Simple Enough for a Child

  • Collect stray carts outside the grocery store and put them back in the corrals.
  • Send a note of appreciation to a coach, teacher or neighbor.
  • Do a chore without being asked.
  • If you see something out of place at the store, put it back where it goes.
  • Start the day on the right foot. Smile and say good morning to everyone you see.
  • Bring in a neighbor’s garbage cans or mail on a cold day.
  • When you receive prize tickets from arcade games, give them to someone else so they can get a bigger prize.
  • Hand out a refreshing bottle of water to the mail carrier or delivery driver.
  • Read to a younger sibling to give Mom and Dad a break.
  • Hold open the door for a stranger coming in behind you.

Make Someone’s Day

  • Let someone ahead of you in line at the store.
  • Compliment someone on their hair, clothes, nail polish, or new car.
  • Ask a friend about their day and let them vent.
  • Send a silly TikTok to a friend and let them know you are thinking of them.
  • Give another parent a break. Offer to babysit while they catch up on sleep or shopping.
  • Write a handwritten letter to an older family member. Show them that they are worth the time.
  • Share a word of encouragement with a parent who has her hands full.
  • If you have to run out to the store on a cold or rainy day, be sure to ask your neighbor if they need something.
  • Pull a shy partygoer into the conversation by asking her about herself.
  • Share a friend’s business or service on social media and tag them.

Share the Wealth

  • Hand out $5 gift cards at the gas station, donut shop or fast food restaurant.
  • Tape coins to the machines at the Laundromat or hand out boxes of detergent.
  • Place singles on items at the dollar store – the toy aisle might be the best place.
  • Pay for the order of the person behind you in the drive-up window or toll booth.
  • Purchase a buy-one-get-one item and share it with a friend.
  • Leave a generous tip for a small bill. We have all worked for tips at one time in our lives.
  • Buy lunch for the service man working at your house. Pizza goes a long way when there is more than one.
  • If you have an extra ticket, give it to someone who is waiting in line.
  • Offer your skills for free to someone who needs the help.
  • Share the harvest from your garden or baked goods from your oven.
  • Bring in a coffee for a co-worker.

Do Something Together as a Family

  • Tape coins to the gumball machines
  • Play board games with residents at the nursing home. Bring a plate of cookies with you.
  • Collect old towels and blankets for the animal shelter
  • Help someone load groceries into their car and take their cart back to the corral.
  • Make twice as much dinner as your family needs and give it to a neighbor – just because.
  • Attach coupons to items in the grocery store.
  • Bring goodies to the school secretary, the groomer or your hairstylist.
  • Donate used books to the local Little Free Library.

Help your Fellow Human

  • Leave a used book or magazine at the dentist’s office, coffee shop or auto repair waiting room
  • Give of yourself. Sign up to be an organ, bone marrow or blood donor.
  • Offer your seat to someone who needs it more on the bus, train or waiting area.
  • Say “Bless you” when a stranger sneezes.
  • If you find a stray dog with a collar, call him over so you can reunite him with his owner.
  • If a store or restaurant employee has been kind or helpful, be sure to tell their boss.
  • If you follow someone on social media, leave a comment and let them know why you enjoy their content.
  • Leave a package of baby wipes in a public bathroom changing area.
  • Clean off a dirty park bench or swing if a bird has been there.
  • Leave a nice review for a business on Yelp.
  • Offer to take a photo for a group trying to take a selfie.

– Pam Molnar

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