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Families Donate Live
Organs To Save Their Own Children by Tali Toland
According to The New England Journal of Medicine, the intangible benefits of saving a life are most rewarding and the risk-benefit ratio is most favorable when the donor is genetically and emotionally related to the recipient. These families would agree. A Grandmother Steps In
Jalen was born with polycystic kidney disease, and at 3 weeks old he was admitted to the hospital where he’d remain for months. In January 2003, when he was 2, Jalen had a kidney transplant from a deceased donor, but last year his body began to reject that kidney, causing a host of health problems, including congestive heart failure. That’s when Nita (as Jalen and his brothers call their grandmother) started researching living donors. “I had no idea that his insurance would pay for me to have the surgery,” says Williams. “Once I got that information, I was ready to be tested.” William’s husband Keith was on board as well. “He had watched Jalen suffer and had seen the stress it had caused my daughter. When we found out I was a match, the entire family was so excited,” she says. Since having the transplant surgery in May, recovery has been better than expected for both Jalen and his grandmother. Williams was back at work six weeks after the surgery. Jalen has labs done once a week to ensure everything is working properly, and he will have to take immunosuppressant medication for the rest of his life. “But that is much better than him having to go to dialysis three times a week,” says his grandmother. Long term, doctors tell Williams she’ll
be fine living with one kidney and that
Jalen will live a long, healthy life. “They
told us in the beginning that his body could
reject my kidney because there are no
guarantees,” Williams says, “but when they
put the kidney into his little body they
said it began to work instantly.” Beverly and Tod Ellison found out their
son Trevor, now 9, had enlarged kidneys when
he was in utero.
“We’d heard that living donations are better,” his mother says. “So that’s what we wanted to do.” A living donation kidney can last up to 30 years; a kidney from a deceased donor may only last 15 years. Tod
was back at work within 10 days of the
transplant, but it took almost six weeks
before he really felt back Trevor has gained a
much-needed 13 pounds since his transplant.
“He is enjoying his new life,” reports Tod. The doctors continue to monitor Trevor’s blood and kidneys to make sure there are no rejections. Eventually, Trevor will need another transplant – but, thanks to his dad, not until he’s in his 40s. Emergency Decision For Emily McBride, the process of donating a portion of her liver to her now 4-year-old son, Jackson, was a no-brainer and an extremely fast process. “They never determined what caused Jackson’s liver to fail,” she says. “From the day we first took him to the doctor and started running tests to two weeks later when he had the transplant, 90 percent of his liver cells were dead.” Jackson, who became ill at 18 months, was
diagnosed with Fulminant (Acute) Hepatic
Liver Failure in March 2006. As soon as the
Augusta family arrived at Children’s
Healthcare of Atlanta, tests were begun and
young Jackson (Jax to his family) was put on
the national donor list that evening. “The
next day there were no donors available and
Jax was getting worse,” recalls Emily. “They
said he might not make it two more days, so
they decided to test myself and Justin
[Jackson’s dad] to see who would be the
better match; my liver was bigger, so they
chose me.”
The next day, doctors determined which portion of Emily’s liver she’d share with her son; the transplant was made the following day. “I don’t really have the words to describe how I felt,” Emily says. “It all went so incredibly fast that I don’t even think I had time to process it until after it was all over, and then I just broke down. “There were absolutely no doubts or
reservations in my mind that I was going to
do what was needed for my son to live,” she
adds. “I don’t think there is another mother
out there who wouldn’t have done the same
thing.” Emily spent about
a week in the hospital and felt pretty good.
Recovery proved slower for Jackson. He was
in ICU for almost six weeks, and in the
hospital a total of about three months. “He
had a few bumps along the road, but he was a
tough little guy and pulled through them
all,” says his mother. Jackson will be on anti-rejection medications for the rest of his life. “He has had quite a few infections since the transplant and had to be on IV meds at home, but thankfully we have been hospital- and tube-free since the fall of last year,” says Emily. “He is doing awesome now – and can finally be a kid.” For all three families, that’s what it was all about – making sure their child could be just a kid. |
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