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1983-2008:
Parenting Then & Now by Tali Toland
Baby Sitting Then: $5/hour for 2 kids
Now:
$12/hour for 2 kids Then: At-home affairs with homemade cakes and games.
Now: $400
soirees that strive to out-do the last party
you attended, complete with costumed
characters and gourmet eats. Then: Stopping by the occasional garage sale and hoping there would be something worthwhile to spend $10 on.
Now: Stores
and seasonal sales with barely used clothing
are all the rage - you can practically only
shop these sales and outfit the kids in the
latest styles for half the price. Then: Were only used as a last resort for couples who had been trying to have children for years.
Now: Single
women in their late twenties are using the
practice to freeze their eggs in hope of
someday finding "Mr. Right" to father their
children. Then: Knocking on doors and eating that candy all night long was the only thing to do.
Now:
Neighborhood parties, mall events and other
non-trick-or-treating options are more
common. Then: Computers were a novelty at home, school and the office.
Now: We're
wired! At home, school, the office, in the
car - and even on our cell phones. Then: Having two parents in the work force wasn't the norm. "For moms, finding after school care was the hardest thing," Linda Matzigkeit, senior vice president of Human Resources at Children's Healthcare of Atlanta. "Kids were left alone more often."
Now: There
are more of them in the workplace. "Working
mothers have become a dominant force," says
Matzigkeit. "They are critical." For today's
moms the real challenges are making sure
your kids can participate in
extra-curricular activities, and getting
dinner on the table. "Things are just busier
now. Getting your child to baseball practice
three days a week is really difficult for
working moms," says Matzigkeit. "In 1983,
practice was one day a week - not so
anymore." Then: Dad was for having fun with, supporting the family financially and occasionally handling discipline.
Now: "There
has been a huge shift," says Matzigkeit.
"Today there are many more 50/50
partnerships. Dads are playing a stronger
role contributing to parenting and family
responsibilities with things like carpool,
making dinner and laundry." Then: There were a few vaccines aimed at children, needles were commonplace, and getting a hold of the doctor meant calling an answering service and waiting hours for a response.
Now:
Life-saving vaccines against Varicella, HPV,
meningitis and rotavirus have been
developed. Alternate routes of drug
administration such as orally disintegrating
tablets, intranasal vaccines and needle-less
medication delivery systems have also been
developed. "These alternative systems are a
result of the greater focus on pain free
medicine and helping limit anxiety for our
young patients," explains Dr. Vivian Lennon,
director of Primary Care at Children's
Healthcare of Atlanta. Then: Books weren't available making parents responsible for creating curriculum and all teaching. "In-home teaching was the only option for homeschoolers," says Randi St. Denis, director of the Home Educators Encouragement Alliance. Now: It's grown by leaps and bounds - there are an estimated 80,000 homeschooled children in Georgia. "There are so many options," says St. Denis. "There are books and curriculum available to parents. Kids can go to a university model school [homeschool hybrid] for a class or two and there are homeschool days at museums." But, the biggest change in today's homeschools comes from technology says St. Denis. "Now a renowned writer in Montana can teach your child in Atlanta through email and online chatting," she says. "Also, homeschooling is now international - so people from other countries will be able to teach your child another language through the Internet." |
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